The Moore American

November 7, 2012

Help youngsters stay healthy and stay in school


The Moore American

MOORE — Question: My daughter has been sick more than usual this year. Even though I call in to let the school know she will be absent, it still counts against her. I’ve been told that even though she might be passing, she could still fail or not get credit because of the absences. We can’t afford to go to the doctor each time for minor illnesses just to bring a note to the school. I know we can’t be the only ones in this situation, so what do you suggest to others?

— Samantha, OKC

Dear Samantha,

This is a problem that we frequently deal with. As parents, we understand minor illnesses which do not require doctor’s care; however, school board policy dictates how much time students need to spend in class in order to get the credit for it.

When looking at this from an employer’s point of view, the amount of time students are allowed to miss is very liberal compared with how much we could miss in the work world. Some things to try — make sure your kids are eating healthy, getting plenty of sleep, washing their hands frequently, covering their mouths when coughing or sneezing, not drinking or eating after others, wearing appropriate clothing for the current weather, and drinking plenty of water.

You might even throw in some vitamins every now and then as you so choose. There is a lot of missed instruction when kids are absent from school, and it’s very hard for them to learn without hearing the material — and then they get frustrated!

Although we don’t want kids to come to school and spread germs, we also know from our own experiences with our children, they are good fakers at times! We remember from being in the classroom that minor aches and pains are more easily forgotten once kids get to school and get their minds on something else.

Question: My son insists on listening to music while doing his homework. We have had words over this several different times. We decided to leave this up to you … is this acceptable or should he turn it off?

— Jeff, Norman

Dear Jeff,

Depending on what learning style your son is most successful with, many auditory learners do best with background noise to keep them focused and on task. Where it would drive a kinesthetic learner absolutely crazy, auditory learners are not bothered by it. Some ways to tell if your son is an auditory learner are: do his lips move when he is reading … does he know the words to songs after only hearing them once or twice … does he have excellent recall on past conversations?

You didn’t mention his grades.

Does listening to music result in bad grades? You should Google learning styles. There’s great information on the internet about how to help children with the various learning styles succeed.

Sally Phillips and Jeannie DeLancey are certified school counselors with 49 years combined educational experience. Jeannie has two children and Sally has three. The responses presented don’t necessarily reflect the views of any certain school district. Send questions to questions.classact@gmail.com or mail them to Class Act, The Norman Transcript, P.O. Drawer 1058, Norman, 73070.